where do we stand

I dont know why we are spending time and effort on someone who doesnt even care. It's ok to not be your priority, it's ok not to be second or third, but it's definitely not ok for you to take us for granted. People you can come to when you feel lonely, and ditch whenever you have other things(they are not even important) to do. I just don't get it. Is a little bit of your time/effort too much to ask for? Or have you decided to scrape the friendship and I'm the one still not getting the hint? If we had to make this clear, I would choose to drop you. At least it saves me from all the confusion and I dont have to feel like a hypocrite sometimes.