its the leftover time that i get. ur other plans take precedence over me, all the time. for activities that u do every week - u can't push them aside once in awhile for me. and then there's the kind where u can't confirm our slot and expect me to wait endlessly until u've had enough fun (or when everyone leaves because u'll never leave the group early) before our "date" begins.

i dont demand for ur training and family slots,  like how u wont demand for my working hours. we dont have much common time, just 1 saturday and 1 or 2 weekday nights. dont give them all away for other things. i cant even "book" you on a saturday anymore because there's a possibility of some other activities, and that will take precedence over me if the timing clashes.

u know me, i cant accept being treated as a backup plan, more than once in awhile, by anyone including u